Kamis, 19 Juli 2012

Walking Marriage at Lugu Lake

The most common way to getting around Lugu Lake is by cycling, damn!! For unfortunate people like me that can’t ride a bike, that’s a disaster. All of my partners in crime decided to have biking trip, and then took the overpriced boat trip to the other side of the lake, the Yunnan side. The boat ride getting to Lige or LuoShui cost around 90 Yuan per person, and renting car will cost 150 Yuan, but nobody wanted to share that car with me, so I decided to try my luck on hitchhiking. I almost gave up when realized no cars on the road, just some tourists biking around, and the first motorbike that stopped, asked for money to take me to town. But luckily after walked a bit farther, an empty minivan stopped to give me a ride, with bonus-the driver was cute ;)

After arriving town, I need to find cars heading to LuoShui as well, my best chance was when the bus arrives at the afternoon, but it means I should wait for more than 5 hours in a small town with relatively no attractions and you can go from one end to the other in 10 minutes walk. So I tried to hitchhike again,and not so long after a minivan stopped, the driver asked for 30 Yuan to take me to LuoShui, it was a good deal for me, so I hopped in. Apparently the minivan was rented by some aunties from Shanghai for getting around the lake, and we made a lot of stops to take pictures. Along the way, we saw lots of people biking, getting red like crabs and sweating like a pig, one of the aunties said to the other “Look at them, luckily we took the car” Couldn’t agree more!! LoL

I can easily say LuoShui is one of my favorite place, nice weather, streets with cobbled stones, I could sit by the lake doing nothing, singing along while plugged into music, and romantic for sure. If only I had a lover there, I’d wish for time to stop, pfft… 

The walking marriage practiced by the local minority-the Mosuo, somehow spread more pheromones in the air. It’s a matriarchal society, a woman kingdom where the grandmother becomes the head of the family. It sounds like paradise for irresponsible men, they can get laid to as many girls as they want to, don’t have to officially marry the girl, don’t have to earn money for the family and don’t even have to raise the children. But in the other hand, it’s kinda sad for type of family guys, they don’t have the social power and have no rights for the woman they love, nor even their own children. If a woman and a man are interested in each other, the man can come to her house at the night, and BANG!! But he has to get back to his own house the next morning. If the woman get pregnant, the child will be raised by the woman’s family. Most of the children know exactly who their biological father is, but they won’t talk about it in public. At school, it’s considered offensive asking the children, ‘who is your father?’  And since they can’t raise their own children, the men in the family usually help to raise his sister’s children. That’s why, the women of Mosuo are typical hard worker and independent ones, they have to work their ass off to earn money for the family. I salute you Mosuo girls :D

I didn’t have any plan on where to go next, until my dorm buddy-Mike the Oz guy, convinced me to do Tiger Leaping Gorges. I should definitely thank him, it’s my personal piece of paradise on earth :)

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